Tita, the youngest daughter of Elena, in Like Water for Chocolate, struggles to find her independence. Her mother, a very harsh and strict woman, enforces that she will never marry but take care of her until death. I think this was a very selfish demand. Did Elena just make this up or was this the custom? I think she did not want to be alone after becoming a widow but more so to torture Tita. Tita found true love at an early age and is not able to pursue it. She is forbidden at times to see or speak to Pedro but has to endure the pain of watching her sister, Rosaura, marry Pedro. Mother Elena arranges for Rosaura, the oldest daughter, to marry Pedro knowing full well it would hurt Tita. Elena, it seems uses this as a form of punishment. Throughout the movie we follow Tita with her struggle to have a relationship with Pedro. Every night Tita would cry and knit a quilt. The quilt was very long, signifying the many nights she spent yearning for him. Tita uses the quilt to place over their bodies even at the time of death.
Magical realism is used when Tita places her emotions in the food she prepares. Tita learns at a young age to cook from her grandmother, and takes over the head cook at the ranch after her grandmother’s death. Tita uses her rebellion against her mother and places her feelings in the food she prepares. Many of the emotions are acted out by the characters in the movie, as if a spell has been cast on them. Elena accused Tita of making people sick, like in the scene when everyone cried after eating the cake because Tita let a tear drop fall in the cake. I tried to observe if these emotions ever affected Pedro. Sometimes I don’t think they did because he felt the same way Tita did, so he did not get sick. The feelings between the two were shared even at the dinner table while others acted out the emotions.